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Are wedding parties worth it?

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Daniel & Karen decided not to have a wedding party instead of following the “wedding template.” No bridesmaids, no groomsmen, no obligations…. no drama.

Their closest friends were invited to participate in pre-wedding activities, including getting ready, but they weren’t forced to attend. Karen was even more delighted to see who showed up for her. She knew they were there because they really cared about her and truly wanted to be there.

Wedding parties are part of the traditional wedding template, but do you have to have them?

It can also be a lot of work, add drama and stress, and requires a lot of effort (and money) from your friends. 

What has been your experience with your wedding party? Would you recommend having one or opting for something like Karen and Daniel?

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Daniel & Karen decided not to have a wedding party instead of following the “wedding template.” No bridesmaids, no groomsmen, no obligations…. no drama.

Their closest friends were invited to participate in pre-wedding activities, including getting ready, but they weren’t forced to attend. Karen was even more delighted to see who showed up for her. She knew they were there because they really cared about her and truly wanted to be there.

Wedding parties are part of the traditional wedding template, but do you have to have them?

It can also be a lot of work, add drama and stress, and requires a lot of effort (and money) from your friends. 

What has been your experience with your wedding party? Would you recommend having one or opting for something like Karen and Daniel?

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    Robin Sloan, The Uncorked ProjectVerifiedRobin Sloan, The Uncorked Project

    There is no rule that you HAVE to have bridesmaids or any kind of a wedding party! I have photographed so many weddings that had close friends as honorary attendants. They were in the getting ready room and we made sure to capture a portrait of the close friends during cocktail hour- but it wasn't the traditional posed portrait. You know your circle better than anyone... don't feel forced into the tradition! What do you think?

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Do you feel like the industry charges more “because it’s a wedding” and they know it’s an emotional purchase?

Do companies think that they can charge more for weddings since the bride and groom may be willing to spend more on their dream wedding?

Hey wedding pros – is this higher price tag justified? Why? Do you charge more for your service if it is a wedding?

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    Robin Sloan, The Uncorked ProjectVerifiedRobin Sloan, The Uncorked Project

    I have been asked this so many times... does the wedding industry inflate prices when they hear it's a wedding?

    Here is my honest answer (as a former wedding photographer)... NO. Did I charge more for a wedding than a 50th birthday party or a family portrait session? Yes, absolutely. I charged A LOT more for a wedding.

    Was I taking advantage of the emotional sell? Absolutely not.

    The main reasons I charged more for a wedding were: the unseen amount of work involved in the 12+ months leading up to the wedding, the skill level needed on the day, the INTENSE pressure to create perfect "portfolio level work" no matter what the reality of the situation- but mostly it is to compensate for the time AFTER the wedding in post production.

    Little known fact about wedding photography - the real job is sitting at a computer editing photos. Photographers spend many hours behind the computer carefully selecting and editing photos. They make adjustments, crop, and adjust colors to ensure each image it's best. Don't forget the time it takes for batching, renaming, importing, exporting and uploading the photos and preparing them for delivery.

    Do you think this justifies why photographers charge more for weddings than for other types of shoots?

    AvatarCody Pettengill

    Couldn’t agree more! And on the videography side its an absolute ton of data + editing discipline.

    Its a double sided coin- weddings are extremely high pressure but also high reward when we nail it.

    Our products (photo video) in particular are the only thing that genuinely will last forever . Having fun and ALSO nailing the product is worth the price of entry and frankly more.

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